Let’s attempt to clear up the confusion with the use of me, myself and I.

If you are doing something, use I:
  My wife and I went to the baseball game.

If something is being done to you, use me:
  The package was sent to my wife and me.

To test your choice, just remove the other person:
  I went to the baseball game.
  The package was sent to me.

Only use myself if there is an I previously in the sentence:
  I, myself, haven’t had that problem.
  I gave myself a black eye when I ran into the closed door.